Often we are in agony wondering whether we should "forbear" with our brother's foibles and weaknesses (Eph 4:2), or "restore them in a spirit of gentleness" as prescribed in Gal. 6:1. Between Two Worlds has an excellent short discussion here on this crucial subject. I found it most helpful. It is a tool to use in marriage, our parenting, or our relationships at church.
As always, your thoughts on this short essay are appreciated.