By contrast, humble people know what they deserve. They know that hell is a place of total social isolation. They know they deserve hell. They know they don't deserve family. They don't deserve friends. They certainly don't deserve to be part of a loving church. As a result they are amazed by the good relationships God has graciously given them. They search their close relationships for virtues, successes, and triumphs so that they can be amazed by them. Then they express gratitude for these expressions of grace verbally. The humble cultivate this discipline. In fact, it is a crucial exercise for those who want to grow in humility.
Are you searching for and communicating evidences of grace to those you love? Blessed are those who do so.