ALTHOUGH GOD ASSIGNS our biological sex at conception, masculinity is learned behavior. That means that you can have a man's body but be feminine in behavior and orientation. Likewise, you can have a woman's body and be thoroughly masculine in your approach to life.
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This is a problem because the Bible never defines masculinity. It just assumes it. In the ancient world there was little gender confusion, nor could anyone anticipate a day when it would arrive.
Because the Bible doesn't address it directly several notable authors have taken a stab at defining biblical masculinity.
In his book Church Planting Is For Wimps, author Mike McKinley writes, “Being a real man means
being responsible, dependable, humble, and strong. It means pouring
yourself out for your wife and kids. It means walking closely with Christ
and taking care of people in need.”
Sax says it this way. “What does it mean to be a
man?” The answer is: being a man means using your strength in the service of
others.”
Wilson writes, “Masculinity is the glad,
sacrificial assumption of responsibility.”
Piper writes, “At the heart of mature
masculinity is a sense of benevolent responsibility to lead, provide
for, and protect women [and children] in ways appropriate to a man’s
differing relationships.”
So where should Christians go to get a solid idea of what masculinity looks like? The Bible doesn't tell us about masculinity: it shows us a picture of masculinity. Jesus was the Second Adam. He was everything that God designed the first Adam to be. Jesus was the ideal man. He modeled masculinity as God intended it. Therefore, a good place to see it fleshed out is Paul's short summary of his life and ministry in Philippians 2:5-8.
“Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross" (Philippians 2:5–8).
In short, Christ-centered men are most app to express masculinity as God intended it. And we see Christ through the gospel. Therefore, Gospel-centered men are most apt to be Christ-centered. And Christ-centered men are most apt to be masculine.